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Hope you find a nice guy!
it’s true, we’re so secretive and paranoid
Thanks 🥰
👀 but why?! Are you hiding anything? Do you have secrets you'd like to share with me? 😇
hahah
maybe
Get out more luv, it'll happen. Go to meet ups, not with the view of snaring your prey but to have fun. You will see that all men are children looking for love! You might find one you like enough to adopt 😜💜🚒🇬🇧😎
Best of luck! 🤞🏻 I gave up on dating apps a long time ago, though it's a much different experience for a woman
but in all seriousness, meeting nostriches in real life changes everything, especially for the secretive. like finding your flock
✍️ no snaring prey... Hmm what interesting dating advice
One of my girlfriends made me promise to go on at least one date in every city I move to, which is good advice. I want someone, and men don't really approach in person anymore so meeting in person can get awkward. Fingers crossed I find someone to keep me warm during winter 🥰
Yes I hope to find more of the community here! I joined the Shenandoah Bitcoin club but idk how active their meetup is.
I hope you get a chance to meet with them! have you been to bitcoin meetups before?
Honey, I'm a little older and hopefully wise enough to give advice. Let's face it you will do what you want. My 2 sats is a meer drop in the Bitcoin ocean. I found being happy in my own skin was the first step and not rushing the second x
I was at the Bitcoin policy summit this summer but otherwise no. I'm still pretty new to the community myself. Had a weird calling last December and randomly was like, "oh I need to get off traditional social media and also get off fiat currency" it's been a lot of big changes and I've felt a bit insane. But I've been in good company here on Nostr 😅
Oh it's good advice! I'll try to take it. I am not so great with men. It seems I'm either giving little sister vibes, or if I turn it up a notch it becomes aggressive man-eater vibes. Neither are super accurate 😅
small meetups are the best, where you get to face to face with people, and learn their names. really nothing compares to real life eye contact. it’s only natural anyway. the cool thing I’ve found is you can just show up to any meetup when traveling regardless of where you live and instantly you can find your people (even if we might bicker and disagree over highly controversial topics like core vs knots or bits vs sats)
Baby girl, they are mostly shag searchers on dating sites. You'll be lucky to find a man. It happens but you have to go through loads to find one. If you are being told "you're like my little sister" you are actually being told "you're not my type". Which just means the guy isn't for you. Same with the other statement.
I believe boys are, in general, unable to approach a woman because they are scared. You want a man, not a boy. Sogoet out into the real world, meet people in the flesh. Don't rush. Always be true to yourself and never get drunk with them until you know they are cool. Your heart will tell you, if you know how to listen. So rip up that list of requirements and enjoy the moment
This sounds right. I'm in a new place now with lots of cute little in person events so here's hoping! Thank you for your wisdom 🥰
Well fingers crossed! I have faith that I'll meet my community here 🥰
yes!
All 3 ounces of it willingly given. Remember to have fun, as my dear old mum used to say, worst things happen at sea 💜🚒🇬🇧😎
🤣 I have a rule about getting on boats with men... Don't.
cc: npub1jdrxrwf2cgyv0rahzyp8jyrm8h9sxm2evjdu7l9k49gd4y4jwckspkvuh3
Look up cockney rhyming slang and what a boat is 😜💜🚒🇬🇧😎
Do you have a dad or a grandpa to protect and advise you during your search? I hope so... 🫂🤔🧐💖
I've got the good folks of Nostr! 💖😂
But really, eh, no. I come from a troubled home sitch. I've been very blessed and lucky in many other ways, but romantically I tend to keep to myself as the best protection.
It's very likely I'll just do one date here, fulfilling a promise I made to a friend. Then back to focusing on my research and my puppy. If a good man has any interest it's a lot of work to get to me normally unfortunately 😂
Tinder is gutter trash.
Bumble has better options, imo less bimbos
Both are equally shit.
Get those titties out there! New twin peaks in the Appalachian mountains 🌄
Daddy Duncan is asking;
Have you tried looking within your department? 😂🤣
Yea I'll probably delete it after I do the one date per city that I promised my friend to do 😂
I got a pair of nice tits for ya 😘
They still don't talk to me in person. Just lurk in obvious ways 😂
Hey, I know you're reading this! Don't be shy you can @ me big bro. The guy in Oregon was hot 😘
His name is Jeff
Well, Jeff, all I can say is God bless America 🇺🇸😘😂
SCREAMING 🤣
“It only takes one... ” I whisper to myself as I crawl through the trenches of the dating apps, reloading my profile pic like ammo
Thankfully, I'm not one of those Nostriches that's easy to manipulate in the way you might be thinking.
That I've yet to confirm, though.
Oh don't worry, I don't think you have any secrets I'd be curious about. I wouldn't dream of trying to manipulate you into sharing 😇😘😂
Hehehe... Good rule!
I have seen several solo female sailors out here.
Good advice indeed! It's a shame people have stopped approaching, but I guess that makes me stand out more since I do it all the time 😃
Good luck
Tinder is a shitshow. There’s gems from time to time if their new but it’s full of degen behavior. (Fun but not fulfilling)
Dating is hella hard these days.
Good luck
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Good luck!
The Psyop is strong with this one. (Jk jk)
Also just chat it up with random peeps and see where it goes. Some peeps are interesting and some peeps just need a little push in their DMs.
Honestly have been trying to build a dating app using Nostr as a verification system. But I hate that the app would need a lot of data of the peeps using it. But if anyone got any ideas I might just implement them lol.
Some folks just need a challenge to know someone's worth the beauty and work. ;)
Good luck!
