Best person to ask is @npub1d9a9...w3fp about hosting. Believe it or not this is a controversial question and therefore a dog whistle to certain folks on here. Good luck!

Congrats on your child! 💜🙏🏻 Mama of 5 here with a 1 year old as well. One is such a fun age! I'm happy to tell you you're overcomplicating this. This is all about maintaining control of your RSS feed, the source of truth. As long as it remains in your complete control, your music will never be censored or rugpulled and anything can be updated at any time. Plus, you can put in unlimited value splits that go straight to the contributing artists. There are some free or cheap hosting options but yes they are third party dependent. You can self-host but that's a different adventure for a different note.

Also should you need any help with any of this self hosting stuff, there are a ton of us here on nostr, irc, telegram, mastodon, etc. that are more than happy to help. Just ask @Hash Power Music and @The ₿udtender and @BITwise 🐳 >>= RIGHTish 😁

YES, @boo-bury also. He has put together tons of lightning-enabled live events for musicians around the world. And all these people Libre tagged will teach and empower YOU to do it yourself. Then you learn and teach others, and the cycle continues. 💜

Boo-bury++

The ability to chose how sovereign you want to be is the real killer feature. You can be entirely self sovereign by hosting your feed and files on your own server in your basement. Or you can fully trust a centralized custodian to host and build your feeds for you. There's other flavors in between as well. Imo as long as you're in control of your feeds and files, the tradeoffs for convenience and associated risks are yours to take as you see fit. Im here for all of it.