I’m not sure why gender is relevant in this situation. But, if you don’t want anyone using pictures, maybe you shouldn’t post them to a social media protocol. The internet is a savage place. As far as receiving zaps, people don’t choose to be zapped by other people. But, you have every right to defend yourself. However, when you post your defense online, you also open yourself up to the opinions of others. I’m really not trying to be a dick, but when you post pictures online, this is the risk you take.