Have you thought this way? “I’ve given so much value to the world, the universe should put the right woman in my life” Or “Once I achieve this financial or fitness metric, then I’ll attract the partner i want”

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Spot on. For 2+ decades I’ve watched and learned what makes a woman attracted to a man. I’ve seen guys with no money, no jobs, no physiques - attract the most beautiful women. I’ve seen guys like your friend - 10’s on paper - fall flat on their faces over and over. And so many people attract a person they don’t really want — and repel the person they really want. There’s a dynamic process to all of it. In your friend’s case — yes he will need to start again. He will need to unlearn so much that made him “successful”. That gets more challenging as people age. But it can be done.