yeah 2000+ follows is quite large, and so is 15 relays. I try to stay at under 10 relays and less than 1000 people following. See the ongoing discussion on this here:

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end user cannot read from relay (relays reject large contact lists ) · Issue #41 · nostrability/nostrability

client initiating action nostrudel client receiving or observing action (or lack thereof) nostrudel relays relay.mostr.pub nostr.mom momostr.pink n...

batching should have at least helped with this, maybe we can look into this as a test case @Daniel D’Aquino ? Doesn’t look like batching is helping here.

I'd really love the ability to run my own relay on my node and have it download all the data from who I am following from other relays. Not sure if this is technically possible, but that would feel like full sovereignty over my data.