I see. Well, I'm not poor, so wouldn't know about all that. YakiHonne and Damus don't show, as far as I can tell

Having a common relay isn't necessary. Amethyst should find his notes on the users designated relays. You may want to add a couple more in & outbox relays though. You only have one, and it will limit your replies because it's not writable by everyone.

I'm glad I don't judge my value by the things I own. That would be a sad, sorry life to live.