honestly I didn't know of an ECDH solution until fairly recently. I stole it from Jesse Posner, full credit to him:

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Wow, I didn't know this. Good to learn about this arcane knowledge here. It is still kinda bad in the multisig bunker case because the coordinator can decrypt your messages, but better than nothing? I'll try to implement it.