I mostly agree with you, even if it may be a bit more nuanced and personal when it comes to the motives of those posting.
And I firmly believe everyone embroiled in this thinks they are doing what is right. But for who, and at what price? I can't answer that for others. This is a true test if people can actually embody the ideas behind decentralization and liberty. Many are not ready. But I am proud of Nostr, and we will all weather this 
