That's probably why you've ended up with such a fragmented list of many revisions of your following list. I'll actually increase the length for the strfry relays I host for @Nostria I have saved two of your following lists, one is 240 KB another is 420 KB. The real solution for it though is to use another kind, such as perhaps kind 3000 (Follow sets) from NIP-51:

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"512 KB ought to be enough for anyone". What about this setting in strfry: # Maximum number of tags allowed maxNumTags = 2000 Even if I increased to 512 KB, you'd be hit by this one as well? So I increased that to 5000. Please try it out if you want, Nostria hosts relays in different geographical regions so pick the one closest to you. wss://ribo.eu.nostria.app/ wss://ribo.us.nostria.app/ wss://ribo.af.nostria.app/ When Nostria get more adoption, and hopefully more Premium subscriptions, I'll start up Relays and Media Servers throughout the globe.