The community of people who are neurodivergent sharing neurodivergent developed tips for a better life has come a LONG way. The first time I was told and looked into it all I could find was information from people who's goal was autistic people "acting normal" Telling a fish out of water how to breathe and expecting compliance would be insane. Meanwhile the entire psychology industry and research base hasn't looked at autism beyond compiling a list of ways we annoy neurotypicals and methods for forcing us to stop doing those things. Happy to chat as a fellow adult finally learning who I am and how to be myself.