We may not have reached the limits of AI, but I think it's limits are clearly understood

Why aren't there commonly used pronouns for persons who identify as algae?

Following on The Nostr does not need to be public. Right now, you can create private lists, which means nobody can see your special private feed. BUT... It could be that your published "following list" contains encrypted data where only those you follow can see that you follow them by encrypting a "follow status" only they can decrypt. I'm not suggesting this change, only making an observation.