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Simplify Nostr πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€πŸ³ https://zap.cooking πŸ«‚ https://sobrkey.org πŸŒ… https://gratefulday.space πŸ€” https://asknostr.io
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seth 4 months ago
Every moment you choose a mindset. Constructive builds worlds. Destructive tears them down. Builder or complainer. Choose your path, anon. View quoted note β†’
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seth 4 months ago
The cool thing about nostr is that we’re all here fucking around and finding out πŸ€™
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seth 4 months ago
There is power in the small. Like how Nostr grows through tiny, meaningful interactions that create culture and trust. Our strength is in the village like feel, where people connect directly and are actually seen and not ranked by an algo. GM
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seth 4 months ago
πŸŽ„ Day 3: Day 3: Relays Explained πŸ“ Merry Nostring πŸŽ„ πŸ“š Learn: Relays are lightweight servers that store and forward Nostr events. They don't own your data or control your account. You can use multiple relays for redundancy, and switch between them freely. Unlike traditional platforms, relays are interchangeable infrastructure, not gatekeepers. Your data remains yours regardless of which relay you use. 🟣 App of the Day: nostr.watch https://nostr.watch πŸ‘€ Person to Follow: npub1ymt2j3n8tesrlr0yhaheem6yyqmmwrr7actslurw6annls6vnrcslapxnz #NostrAdvent2025
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seth 4 months ago
Rank your fav: I like Proof of Appreciation image
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seth 4 months ago
Plenty of doom and gloom in sci fi. This is a good change of pace #bookstr image
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seth 4 months ago
Two of my favorite books are How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie and Influence by Robert Cialdini. Both outline simple truths about how humans operate at the OS level, and they apply directly to what we are building on Nostr. Carnegie teaches that you should never criticize, condemn, or complain. People do not change when they feel pressured or shamed. They change when they feel welcomed and understood. If we want zap culture to grow, we cannot guilt people into zapping or tell them they are doing it wrong. Criticism kills curiosity. Encouragement creates participation. Cialdini explains the power of reciprocity. Humans are wired to return value when they receive it. That is exactly what a zap represents. It is not a transaction. It is gratitude. It is acknowledgment. It is someone saying, β€œWhat you did mattered.” When people receive something meaningful, they naturally want to give back. It is healthy to have constructive conversations about culture. That is how we expand our understanding and improve what we are building. What is not healthy is falling into Twitter style arguments where anger and fear are used as fuel. That type of engagement corrodes trust, destroys momentum, and turns communities inward. Human nature always shows up, for better or worse. The question is which part we choose to amplify. If we want a thriving ecosystem, we need to keep building each other up, not tearing each other down.
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