GM. My mom is on my case about moving to Kentucky. She’s talking financial reasons. I have to deal with Eric and the courts. Then the kids have a choice. Etc. she’s acting like I’d move next week. I’m. Not. I’m not leaving Abby to live with her dad period. So, I feel like, back off. I’m thinking about it, I have options but… no perm decision at this moment. I absolutely hate making a decision due to financial reasons when all options hadn’t been explored. I have no issue helping my dad and moving to assist. He’s going to be 80, still going strong. I watched him drive in the funeral
Procession, did awesome. He was right in front of me. He’s on no medication and not in need of immediate care. We have time. Yes financially with all this bullshit coding crap etc is very difficult. However, I’m not making an immediate decision. I can do notary work. We have an insurance issue.
@jack I have a leg disability caused by the drs obviously, family , like my mom who’s bossy, can come in and try to make decisions for me especially when finances are involved. I absolutely hate that. So anyway, we all keep checking lists to get things done, but, sometimes we need to cast stuff where it belongs. Not our problem. I’m excessively trying to increase my $. Get things done. My mom 🤦🏻♀️. Yes it seems like it would be easier financially in Kentucky. However I haven’t worked out the ins and out. My dad has to do something about space. Build a wall. There’s not enough bedrooms for all of us. I refuse to leave one of my kids in Michigan while I’m in Kentucky. Ben could move with his grandma up here, that would be ok but he needs a driver, so idk. Anyway. My dad is helping and I have options. That’s awesome. But lots of little details exist. Pros and cons. Not to mention the delivery - that changes the game J