I think a quiet reason that many men avoid marrying their long term partners is that the men do not want to go through the wedding ordeal and the realities that comes with it - because for many men it means facing the facts that they have VERY FEW friends, especially compared to the woman. While my wife had to agonize about which few friends to put in the wedding party, I had few options for groomsmen beyond my brothers, whom I am not even very close with. I see this in other weddings - the whole thing is sad and painful and forces the men to face the fact they are mostly ALONE on the world, except for the one woman who is marrying them, and the men have nobody to blame but themselves. #responsibility

Attention is her currency. Attention gives her power. If she does not get your attention, and is not yet obsessed with you, she may seek it elsewhere. #women #attention View quoted note →

Her brain is her largest sex organ. 🧠 PG-13 is the way to access her brain and get her engine purring. PG-13 is way better than coming on too strong too fast. This where a lot of guys lose it in the dating scene. Guys think showing her a penis, out of the blue, will get her excited - when the reality is that timing matters. An unsolicited penis is disgusting but a PG-13 build up will leave her asking for more. #women View quoted note →

Her ego is fragile. Handle with care. #women View quoted note →

She wants to be pampered and treated like a princess, and you have still hold her accountable to her responsibilities. If she is treated only like a queen and never like a handmaiden, she will think she is the authority, thus killing any sexual attraction. #attraction

This goes for live interactions, not just random internet followers - interesting women will behave badly if you do not set boundaries. Give the opportunity, she will run roughshod over you. Have firm boundaries, have an interesting life, take care of yourself, and she will want to be a part of it. #women #attraction #dating View quoted note →

Attention = Power. Give her attention, give her power. Remove attention, she will seek more. #attention #women View quoted note →

The whole reason your wife wants you to Work From Home is that you can have sex with her at random times during the workday. If you are not taking advantage of this, you are missing the point. #relationships

Live your life how you want, follow your goals, do exciting and fun things - she will want to be a part of it. #attraction View quoted note →

If you ask her for permission, she will not be interested. #attraction View quoted note →

Women eventually realize that the feminist dream of being a corporate slave is actually not all it is cracked up to be. The most important and impactful thing she can do is be a great mother. Same goes for being a father - it’s just that women begged to get into the workforce, while men have only ever been there out of obligation. #women View quoted note →

I used to call my wife “Tits McGee” when we were dating. I still call her “Tits McGee”, but doing it during the early dating phase was foundational. #attraction #dating

Give her occasional attention, without being needy, and she will begin to adore you. #women View quoted note →

Many of the complaints that you hear from your "Nagging Wife" are sourced from the fact that the husband does not bother to THINK AHEAD about your life together. He thinks the family life is the wife's job. Moms are expected to managing the kids, the house, the schedule, etc. The fact that you cannot manage to THINK AHEAD enough to plan her a birthday dinner, put gas in the car, take out the trash, getting a Mother's Day gift for her and (or for YOUR OWN MOTHER) - this all shows that you are self absorberd. Imagine if you bought gifts and planned parties for EVERYONE in your family, forever, and year after year nobody every said boo about your birthday. ("sorry honey, I didn't think about it...") To shift your relationship from combative to symbiotic, to where your wife is free of stress and happily generates feminine energy, the man must take action to THINK AHEAD about what your wife and your family needs. Get a calendar, put reminders in your phone, write a list, ask your sister to remind you - whatever will help you look ahead and get the tasks done. The reality in this is that the first time you do think ahead and provide something for her, it will be shocking and you will get LOTS OF PRAISE for it. Eventually the shock wears off and the surprise turns to expectation, which may seem unfair, but this is where ther relationship starts to shift - this is where you are actually relieving her of burden and stress, which allows her to become more feminine. #relationships #responsibility

Marry a woman who knows how to cook. Then relieve her from stress and burden. #women View quoted note →

Attention is her currency. View quoted note →