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Coffee break time is time for retrospection, like was my morning as productive as I wanted, how old was that chick in the leather jacket I saw on my lunch walk, 19 or 40? Had @npub1qvm5...cfkt completed her quest for the best new dildo? #peacefullife View quoted note →

I start following @coastal bunn and a moment later this image pops up.... this can't be a coincidence #truthisoutthere #frequencyillusion

Some time ago, my wife finally started seeing a therapist after thinking about it for ages. She needed to work through some issues with her mother. Here's the background: My wife comes from a broken family. Her father was easily manipulated by other women, so he left early in her childhood for another relationship. This left only her mother to raise two kids - not easy in that society and time. Her mother tried her best, but it came out as very controlling and directive parenting. As a result, my wife developed anxiety and self-esteem issues. After just a couple of therapy sessions, something changed... At a family gathering, my mother-in-law started her usual nagging at her daughters (my wife and her sister). She complained about how they should learn to cook better - despite never letting them cook at home growing up. She told them they're lucky to have found 'too-good' husbands who take care of them, etc. I don't think she meant it badly, but still... This time was different. My wife stood up for herself and her older sister (who usually just tunes out these rants as self-defense). She told her mother she should be happy about what her children have achieved instead of envying them. A little harsh? Maybe. But after hearing 'you're not good/strong/smart enough' for years - whether about school choices or any other activities - I totally understand my wife's feelings. So yeah, my wife grew some balls that day 😅 #womanpower

GM 🌤☕

GM☕☀ Last few days to enjoy morning coffee outside (without stiff nipples, that's it)!

It's funny how overattention aka 'can't see the forest for the trees' sometimes manifests. Especially for folks on the spectrum. Like there was a conference for Ruby programmers, which is a language that has notions of symbols. You want symbol nostr, you write it like ':nostr'. Now someone thought, hey, you know what would be funny, if they had t-shirts with sex symbol, like ":sex". Well, it was all fun & games until someone told them, that for normies, it would read as '[colon] sex' (that's the official name for those two dots, for non-native speakers such as me, also it means...). So they allegedly stopped doing that. Same for me with my nick (although they never diagnosed me). When looking for a nick to outlet my... let's say overactive side for lack of better terms, I remembered days of old, when I had played D&D and names had twists and backstories built around them. Wanted to pick a nickname that would be unique for that time, have some structure and while being self-explanatory, had a twist for the initiated. German has a good take on compound words, but I wanted NOT to associate my persona with German speaking, mainly because I know more Klingon than German, and in Klingon I can only say 'batlh tuqraj quvmoHjaj' (which means 'honor to your house', still waiting for the right occasion to geek that out). But you know which language has sort of an esoteric core and has compound words? Esperanto! What's more, you can put together suffixes 'em' for liking/loving something, 'a' for making it an adjective, and prefix it with 'sub'. Like an adjective you would use on someone who likes submissivity (without differentiating top/bottom position, which is also cool, because were I free-range, I would consider myself a switch). So my great nick was born! ...alas, it took me several years and accounts across three or four communities until I suddenly recognized that most people read it as 'submissive Ema'. 😮 I mean I have nothing against sissies, they have aspects of their lifestyle that are alluring, but I would never want to be one. Moreover with the name EMA I don't like. Well, it was too late, since I was on more sites with digital footprint, so I decided to #embracemistakes #originstory

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GM ☕🌥 Love me some knee socks 😍

I mean, it's important to have fun 😄

Finally got around to up my @Azzamo time. I got strangely hesitant to post once I realized that some of my account content would be on some relay and on other no. Should be fixed now.

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Warm Autumn coats, thigh high striped stockings or boots, kinda wants me to go for a walk right now.

Come on, this can't possibly be healthy...

GM ☕🌤 #breakfast

I am that one friend that always chimes in with "phrasing", "that's what she said" or 'this almost never happens to me" when I accidentally squirt ketchup on you. #adultByAgePubertyByChoice

Got reminded that I wanted to rewatch Lost in Translation after a long time, more mature this time (well, more experienced is a better term), and more appreciative that not all things need resolution #quintessenceoflife #drunkstr #grownostr View quoted note →

She is back. One evening, with people over and the room full of noise, she secretly motioned her into a closet when no one was looking. She pinned her arms above her head with her right hand, while her left revealed a Lovense Lush. Leaning close, she whispered: “This one is going in you before we head to the riverside bar.” “But… but you can’t possibly do it now, I’m not ready,” the roommate tried to protest meekly. She only smiled, tightened her grip on her wrists, and ordered: “Then you’d better tell me how to get you wet with one hand before anyone finds us.” It was almost like Seven Minutes in Heaven - except this time, she was the only one in the compromising position. Shirt half pulled up, breasts groped, a shiver running through her. A single moan slipped out - barely the beginning of what the evening would demand. #nsfw #writing View quoted note →