Not everyone who has something to say has meaningful to say. A mentor used to tell me this: be mindful of those who like to listen to their own voice. They are most often than not speaking out of insecurities. #nostr #plebchain #grownostr View quoted note →

When I joined the society I was too naive. Guess what? Life taught me the hard way. Learn the rules otherwise, you'll be up for surprise. Three things I learned along the way if you do not like/hate your situation: 1. Change it 2. Suck it up 3. Remove yourself from the situation. I tried all of them and it nearly cost myself in the process. So know the rules. Which one have you tried? #asknostr View quoted note →

caption this #nostr tribe #asknostr hope your weekend is going well — you beautiful soul 🫂🙏☺️

People will always test your boundaries. It is your job to make those boundaries clear. If you make a few jokes with people or you hang out with them a couple of times to be "friendly", some may be confused into thinking that "they know you". Some will then start to test your limits. If you are a "yes" person, they will wrap you around their little finger. If you know which lines cannot be crossed, communicate your boundaries clearly so they will know to back off. So either be firm or be controlled — the choice is yours. #grownostr #plebchain #nostr

The last couple of weeks, my partner and I made an effort to socialise with new people. A summary of what I have observed. 1. You do not change overnight; it takes a lot of hard work and a strong "why". 2.Some are addicted to drama and the sad part, they are not aware of it. 3. Some make it a habit to complain how shitty other people's lifestyles are. They are too busy minding others' business that they cannot see their own. Probably the most important point is: "The human heart is fickle and complex." What have you learned leading up to the festive holidays? #asknostr #plebchain #nostr #grownostr

the more experience I have in this lifetime, the more I realised that the best gifts are: 1. Time bcoz once it'a gone, you can never go back. 2. How you make others feel. If you are kind to others, you may leave a lasting impression on them. Hopefully they pay it forward. what is the best gift you've given? #asknostr #plebchain #grownostr