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What if I told you, you could build a quality social life without going out to bars or using dating apps?

Im looking for three men who want to grow a strong community for better dating and/or friendship options. Offering three free spots for a newly created 12 week program to where we work together one on one to get you where you want to be. If you are a man age 25-45 who has your health and wealth dialed in but are struggling socially (lack of community, lack of dating options, just went through a breakup and restarting) i’d love to speak with you. DM or comment if you’re interested. Share with anyone you think would be a good fit!

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GM nostr Nature is cool.

GA nostr If you arrange your life with an effort of constantly pleasing your woman by trying to make her happy, it will have the opposite effect. It will cause her to feel unsafe and resent you. The goalposts of her satisfaction will continually shift until you have nothing left to give. A primary focus on pleasing God and following his calling on your life is the only noble goal. If you stay true to this, your woman’s satisfaction will eb and flow but at least her respect will remain and, more importantly, you will fulfill a higher purpose on this planet. What do you think? Does that fit with your own experience?

This is the way to live life. View quoted note →

Be at the cause of everything that happens in your life, not at the effect. That is personal sovereignty.

GM The key to social success is being like the sun. Constantly giving life energy. Constantly radiating without any need for reciprocation. If you feel stifled and in your head in social settings, you can begin breaking out of it by observing the present moment. You’re experiencing an imbalance between inward and outward focus. Feel the sensations, see the beauty, and listen to the humorous nature of your world. Then, speak. You have a unique perception of our world that can add value to others lives. But, it’s only found when you stop trying to imitate and find a congruent expression of how your soul is enjoying life. Embody the non-neediness, the illumination of beauty, the energetic abundance of the sun and watch as people are drawn into your orbit.

Nostr is digital social sovereignty. View quoted note →

GN had a primal day with the boys. @paul keating @Micael

GM surfing is a scam. Don’t do it. @paul keating

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What happens if you don’t take action to grow a strong community around you? Boredom and its downstream effects are one of the biggest issues. When we don’t have daily real life interactions with people who are actively improving their life, we’re tempted to fill the void with cheap dopamine hits. If we allow our time to be eaten up with scrolling, tv, and porn our life force will be tangibly depleted and the downward spiral easily sucks us in. It doesn’t have to be that complicated. Actively seek out a few like valued men and plan some cool shit to do together. If you can’t find any in your town, or the ones you ask are busy or locked in their own word, either move where the people are or connect online and plan a trip.

Such a great little vlog from jam’s adventures. View quoted note →

Solitude is essential for discovering your purpose and reconnecting to God. The spark of creativity ignites in the quiet dry moments where your heart is responsive to promptings from above. The outside world is a mirror. If you ask it who you are or what you should do you will find plenty of answers but they will all be different and will lead you in circles. You’ll only find confusion. Alternatively, If you come to the world with a definite resolution to be, have, and act it will respond with agreement. When you co-create with God a vision of your goals being achieved and living out your purpose while walking through life holding that congruent intention you will be surprised at the results.

A mature man must have the ability to generate a strong community and social circle with like valued people in any city he chooses to live within a few weeks to months at the very least. Once you have your health and wealth dialed in, this is by far the most beneficial skill to cultivate that will dramatically increase your wellbeing and quality of life. Im surprised at how many men i meet who live a mostly solitary existence. We may be around people for work and live in close proximity to neighbors in apartment buildings and subdivisions but when we don’t take the lead to generate actual community around us, we risk mental isolation that weakens our spirit and life force.

GM Your community is the foundation of your citadel. Your brotherhood is the bedrock of your community. Choose and build wisely. @Micael @paul keating @npub1rm95...qh3k

Jam has been posting some amazing stuff on here! View quoted note →