Kyle Miller
KyleMiller@primal.net
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🔥 Break Free. Move Forward. Build a Life You Love.
You’ve escaped the narcissist, but the thoughts won’t stop. The overthinking, self-doubt, and emotional exhaustion are keeping you stuck. You know you should be moving forward, but no matter how much time passes, you still feel trapped. I get it—because I’ve been there. And I know exactly how to help you break free from the mental grip of narcissistic abuse so you can finally start living again.
🎥 On this channel, I share real talk, expert insights, and entertaining content to help you heal, rebuild your confidence, and create a life you actually ❤️—not just survive in. Healing isn’t just about feeling better—it’s about stepping into your power, rediscovering joy, and building a future that excites you.
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We're gaslit and abused and trained that this is normal. Then we feel like failures for not being able to hold healthy boundaries with others. We literally have to untrain our impulse to retract from everyone and everything. Then we train ourselves to set and hold healthy boundaries. It's not an easy process, but it's worth it!
We all get to choose the hard things we're willing to do.
Getting out of toxic relationships is incredible and awful and needed. The real beauty comes in making and allowing the space to find ourselves perhaps for the first time in our lives. This is my wish for every single individual! Everyone deserves this and it's also something we all can do!❤️ 
We are all becoming someone new throughout our lives, hopefully. Especially if we are growing, healing and breaking generational cycles. This is hard work and it takes time. It's also something we've never experienced before and don't have an example to look to for our own lives. Be extra kind to yourself through this process. It makes the journey so much better and we end up making more progress too!
It's an education you'll never forget and one no one ever wants. The only good news with this education is if you study well you'll only need this education once. Unfortunately if we don't do the work, we will probably have to repeat it more than once. Take the time and do the work! You are worth it! 
Narcissists never do anything wrong and all their behavior is perfect or they're doing the best they can. According to them at least. We know this is a complete lie to keep their illusion alive. We must watch the behavior of other people, not just their words. They will show us who they really are over time.
The "love" and affection offered by a narcissist is a fragile illusion that's used for control and manipulation. When we begin to see the control and manipulation, it begins shattering the illusion of any actual love from them. It's never easy to see the truth, but it's better than living in the illusion. 
Resistance is always what holds us back from almost everything in our lives that we want. We cannot freely move forward in our lives without releasing the brakes. It's almost always subtle nuances just below our conscious awareness. When we work through those things it makes everything better and smother in our lives.
Most often I see people either avoid everyone to try to avoid narcissists, or they are over confident in their abilities to spot them. One side we are perpetually alone. The other side we end up further into another toxic relationship and then have another mess to clean up. All or nothing thinking is almost never helpful in moving forward with our lives. Everything requires a balance.
Everyone gets to have a bad day or moment. When it becomes a pattern of mistreatment, that's abuse. No one deserves that. There is no justification for it and they don't value you. We all deserve people in our lives that value us. Find these people and let go of the rest. Never settle for less than you deserve! 
The good news about taking this masterclass is after you've done the work of healing you may never need to take this class again. If you do, the chances are it will be a much shorter class than the first time and you'll heal much quicker with less effort. This, unfortunately, is the only good news about this class. 
The view is dim and we're not even sure where or who we are. Often, we are the ones who must remind ourselves it will be ok until we find people to help and support us. We start by taking small cautious steps forward and learning to trust these steps and ourselves. Being kind to ourselves is an essential part of moving forward. 
Most of us don't actually reach out for help or begin doing the work until we reach the crisis. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with us for that. It's simply the journey we are on. The good news is that you can decide at any time to begin doing the work and reaching out for support and help.
We're exhausted because of the emotions and also have trouble sleeping because of unprocessed emotions. This is a cycle too many people are in. It's not easy to get out of it either. It requires facing and processing the emotions, which will allow us to rest and continue releasing and healing.
We never see it until we do. It's only looking back that we can put the pieces together to make some sense of it. The good news is that we did figure it out or are figuring it out. Being kind to ourselves through the process is essential. It allows us to release the emotions and the past and move forward in our lives.
Narcissists will do everything they can to control the narrative of the story of your life. They will gaslight, manipulate and straight up lie to keep this control. Don't allow them to influence your thoughts. You know what actually happened in your life and your relationship. You don't have to believe their illusions.
We can never beat, shame or judge ourselves into changing anything in our lives long term. It may work short term, but there's always a cost. It will hurt us long term more than the short term gain of doing it. This is probably one of the most important things that everyone can do, if they decide to. It will forever change your life!
Closure means you see through them and leave. They thrive on keeping you confused and emotionally hooked. The best closure is walking away for good. It's not easy, but it's easier than continuing to live in or conform to their abuse and illusion they want you to live in! We get to choose ourselves!
Couples counseling is never a good idea if you are in an abusive relationship. It's a trap. They will collect more information to use against you and try to use the therapist to further abuse you. It's always better to get therapy for yourself by yourself.