It’s just not user friendly. We’re not going to win like this, with your mentality.

Yeah I hear you, but I don't think sacrificing epic sovereign tech to onboard a few NPCs is really worth it(Braiins' approach to lightning payments) It's really LND that you should be complaining to about their lack of BOLT12 support. Or maybe WoS or whatever lightning wallet you're using. I think true Heatpunks like myself just accept the reality that it's hard to build on lightning and I'm willing to fill the gap by putting in some effort ony end.