Hope this helps someone out there on #nostr Men who have many one night stands, actually suck at sex. Let me explain: 1) If a man is genuinely incredible in bed, the other person would logically want to stay around and do it again. Having many one night stands, suggest a lack of ability to leave a lasting, positive impression that makes someone want a second encounter. 2) Good sex usually requires listening, adapting, and caring about the other person's pleasure. Men who do one night stands, tend to just be focusing on their own.... finish line.... leaving their partner unsatisfied, and then, they don't stick around to get genuine feedback, so they never actually learn how to please their partner contextually or improve their own skills. 3) Relying on a high headcount is a mask for a lack of actual depth or ability because its much easier to convince a stranger to go home with you once, based on charm or looks, than it is to keep someone consistently satisfied over a long period of time. Now, think of a wedding ring, like a 5-star review on a product. When a man is single, hes an unvetted mystery. But when hes wearing a wedding ring, he is broadcasting a loud signal to the world: "Hey, another woman looked at my flaws, habits, personality, and I'm so good at sex that she legally signed up to deal with me for the rest of her life." (🤣 Funny, but 100% true!) ​The wedding ring provides instant social proof to other women. The heavy lifting of figuring out if your a functional, stable human being has already been done by another woman. ​In one famous study from Oklahoma State University, researchers found that when single women were told a man was single, 59% were interested in him. But, ​when told the exact same man was in a committed relationship, that interest jumped to 90%. The men in committed relationships are the ones great at sex.