Yes they are, although they may be more or less especially in the beginning of a relationship. It will always get worse though. They only get better at hiding who they are. They're also willing to burn everything down including themselves to destroy our lives. This is why getting help and support and leaving if and when you can is essential! https://blossom.primal.net/79d6efe3b9ceb340d5e9f8cf3a5fb3fa48aed0c2048990ed717a90be80229ec1.mp4