I like debating. So hard to find people who debate civilly, but rigorously, and still want to be frens, afterward.

"Judge, and be prepared to be judged." - Ayn Rand

You should read On Doing the Right Thing, a collection of essays by Albert Jay Nock. In one essay he talks about this sort of thing. He opines that a soceity is immature if it can't have conversations. Archive: https://archive.org/details/OnDoingTheRightThing Mises: https://mises.org/library/book/doing-right-thing https://mises.org/mises-daily/decline-conversation