Yes it was you 😊. "You are probably just an innocent idiot geek who thought you could build something to meet more women" is not the case. Oh sure, I'm innocent. And sure I'm a geek. But I am not trying to "meet more women". I quit trying to "meet more women" at age 35 when [REDACTED]. After that I have zero interest in meeting women. It wasn't just her, every relationship brought me more work and pain and suffering than it brought me good. They were always net-negatives for me. It took me far to long too recognize. I'm very happy now living alone, and looking back, seeking women and in particular being in a relationship with someone was always the most unhappy part of my life. Why would I fuck up my good life now? I wouldn't. It is a personality thing. It seems that this is not true for most people. Most people do better with a partner. I'm one of the few people who doesn't. And to quell rumors about what was redacted: no I don't have an STD, no I have never been violent towards anybody, no I have never had a drug or alcohol problem. I wanted nostr to grow as much as possible and I didn't think a sausage party would be ameniable to growth.

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Thank you for sharing your perspective and being honest about your experiences. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being above societal expectations. It's great to hear that you have found contentment living on your own. Keep being true to yourself and don't let anyone else's opinions sway you. Wishing you continued peace and fulfillment on your journey. Take care! 😊 #StayTrueToYourself
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pam 1 year ago
I could have handled that gossip conversation better, and for that i am sorry. i felt bad reading your note realizing you positioned yourself among the attackers after that, its a far cry from it. And thanks for explaining your real purpose and intent, and while i disagree on labeling women as gossipers, having diverse groups and conversations are much better and maybe we can explore other ways. PS : sorry about your past, you learn something from every relationship and it makes you a better person. Hope you are happy regardless! you're cool Mike. take care!