That's not how this went down. HODL was the aggressor firing shots at people who aren't married and don't have children. His statements are willfully ignorant of the unique conditions that each individual on this earth is challenged by in their lives. Some people literally cannot have children. Others have been traumatized by life experiences and have no desire to go down that path. HODL is trying to validate his own life choices, which is fine, but he's doing so in an absolutist kind of way that throws shade on a lot of people who don't deserve to be treated that way. That makes HODL an asshole.