How do we handle waiting room though? Since signed event dates can't be changed, if a user publishes one day then a few days or even hours later the note will get burried by any client that shows chronological right? So if it takes an operator days to respond, any social even its basically unseen. I say this as it just seems like either get on the whitelist or don't bother posting to said relay unless the operator responds quickly. I could see this being more useful for content that doesn't require timing.