I'm not sure. I'm just a random guy who tries to understand the economy and Bitcoin and think about the future. So maybe I am. Mainly the part that confuses me is all the people who say "don't value your BTC in fiat" and "1BTC=1BTC". How do these sentiments fit with price discovery? I think this is the core of what bothers me, people in the community just seem to accept this and shower it in praise and likes. But I don't agree with that, I want more details.

In your said future, bitcoin is used to buy goods and services. You intrinsically understand the value of an hour of labor or a loaf of bread. With those being priced in bitcoin, you will quickly make the connection of the value of a satoshi at that point in time.

I agree. Many Bitcoiners (and Nostr-peeps) seem to have broken out of the fiat order, only to converge on a new order where questions disrupt their newfound beliefs. Growing is a continuous process that requires work. You're question seems perfectly legit to me