So when he’s talking about having a virgin woman, I’m assuming he’s a virgin. I think if you’re coming from that point of view that’s awesome but I don’t think he is.

Unspoiled is a way of saying "have not slept around". Ought a man desire that his wife be a woman who has joined herself to multiple other men before him? Ought a woman see the height of sexual experience as "good sex" with men who don't love them enough to covenant with them in marriage, have children with them, be fiercely monogamous, and build a life together?