my form of self-sabotage is never finishing anything, never getting my projects from good to great, and starting more projects that go nowhere instead. shiny object syndrome. :pepewhy:

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I used to be like this too. My girlfriend once told me, "Your friends don't take you seriously and nobody expects you to follow through because you don't." I decided I didn't want to be that guy. So I started following through. It's the boring part that gets us to quit. You have to pick like 1 or 2 things and eliminate everything else. Make sure the thing you keep is what you desire most to finish, even if you don't feel like doing the work to finish it โ€” focus on why you started and what the end looks like. You don't have to be that guy either. You can just decide ๐Ÿซ‚
I do this with people. ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™‚๏ธ I am alone. ๐Ÿค™
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