"people need to learn better conflict resolution skills". Sure. But I think more people need to learn that conflict is ok and it's ok if it doesn't resolve. "Community" involves long simmering, unsolved conflicts that people look past for the sake of the social group. That's the ability we've lost more than the ability to resolve conflict. I am guilty of this too. It's just gonna be a little uncomfortable forever and that's uncomfortable af. That person who was BIG disrespectful to you? You're gonna see them every day for the rest of your life. Y'know what, on second thought, maybe this whole humans being social animals/building community thing was overrated let's just all go back to watching tiktok, eating processed foods, and popping xannies from the comfort of our own homes without other people in them. Other people are gross