It's not though. On Nostr I operate under the assumption that someone already has my nsec, we all should do that. Because it's entirely possible. I bet at least one person has my nsec right now, maybe a few people. I'd never know. Nostr really does rely on social pressure so why bother trying to be secret? But if I started again on Nostr and did only Frost and bunker and White Noise and all that, in that case it'd be different. That's still a really bad experience, so I'll wait. But the tech matters, you have to admit.