Theres no dilemma. You can use lightning AND monero when you're not an ignorant maxi zealot.

What dilemma? We use LN, where its available and it makes sense. Up to 0.001 makes sense for me. Anything else fails for self-custody. So basically LN for small payments. BTC onchain for big payments where I don't care about doxxing myself and Monero for everything else.

if i didn't find blitz wallet, i would still be monero only (until i could self-host)

And saying HFSP to someone irl will get you physically muted. You are a fucking coward and an utter piece of shit. But, cults gonna do what cults gonna do 🤡🖕