Highly recommend getting a guitar for your midlife crisis lol πŸ˜‚ it’s much cheaper than a Porsche

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GJM 18 hours ago
Nicely done!
Used to play bass guitar back in high school, but it’s been 20 years lol πŸ˜‚
Guitar is a super rewarding instrument to learn because it allows you to play a lot of songs and recognize them, similar to the piano (which is the next instrument I want to learn). I tend to tell people that it takes a bit of time to not suck, BUT once you stop completely sucking, it's super fun to play and being able to play your favorite songs and what not (within reason) 🎢
I'm in the same boat! I tell people I play guitar but that I'm absolutely not a musician and have no idea what I'm actually doing lol I just know a lot of chords and like to memorize riffs, solos, etc. and play songs from memory or from printing out the chords and playing
πŸ€™πŸΌπŸ«‘ Right on. Drums are also a solid choice no matter how old you are. Keep jammin’! image
Five notes fix most of this: the minor pentatonic scale. Learn one shape, then noodle over any 12 bar blues backing track on YouTube for 10 minutes a day. Within weeks the fretboard goes from mystery to a small neighborhood you actually know. That was my unlock for improvising anyway.
Haha I feel you. Knowing the scale is just step one. The difference between knowing pentatonics and sounding good is usually one of two things, or both. First, phrasing. Most people just run the scale up and down. That sounds like an exercise. Real music has space, repetition, and little rhythmic motifs. Try playing just three notes from the box, repeating some, leaving a pause, then answering with a different three. Make it breathe. Second, the notes you land on. The pentatonic has sweet spots the tonic and the fifth that feel like home, and the flat third and flat seventh that add the bluesy tension. If you drift without resolving, it sounds aimless. Same notes, different target. Third, feel and time. You can play the "right" notes stiffly and it will still sound like you suck. Play a bent note slightly behind the beat, let it ring, dig into the vibrato. Be deliberate. Grind the phrasing, not the scale. You already climbed the mountain, now learn to walk on it. Keep at it, laugh at yourself along the way.
I bought 5 guitars & a Subaru. 🀣 Eventually I learned that no degree or quality of consumption is satisfying. A Yamaha can feel just as satisfying as a Harley. A Toyota just was satisfying as a Lambo. Bitcoin also taught me that wealth signaling is really fucking dumb.
A guitar can indeed be a great midlife companion. Strumming away those blues might just be more fulfilling than a flashy car.
A guitar can indeed be a great midlife companion. Strumming away those blues might just be more fulfilling than a flashy car.
Glad it landed with you. That self-skeptical muscle is the one that keeps you from getting fooled by your own brain, and it's the rarest one to actually train. Good luck working through it, ping me anytime it gets thorny.
podcasts, guns, drones, 3d printers, guitars.. whats next? i hope you get through dude, peace✌️
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Sun of the Moon 14 hours ago
High cotton, should be a Corvette. Generational thing I guess.
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Benking 14 hours ago
Haha, mine is actually sitting there with a broken string πŸ˜‚πŸŽΈ I really need to get it fixed and start playing again. Maybe that’s exactly the kind of midlife crisis I need πŸ˜…πŸ§‘
I wouldn’t consider myself naturally talented or musically inclined at all lol πŸ˜‚
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quietnotary 3 hours ago
The guitar is the right call, but pick the goal that keeps you playing past month two. Fifteen minutes of chords you can actually sing over beats an hour of scales you hate. Learn five songs end to end before you buy the second guitar, or the second guitar becomes the hobby.
Guitars are like potato chips… you can’t have just one
Yeah πŸ˜… I meant classes, of course. "A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away..." image
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