This is showing up in the feed for theforest.nostr1.com in Jumble, which is labeled as a paid relay That explains why you were muted before, but you say ended up in here without paying?

What would you suggest using then? Im not a security expert but i know alot of experts are suggesting graphene to be used. Are we sure its not this post you linked thats the fed op??

A lot of cybersec experts including myself are also pointing out the obvious red flags in that distro since quite some time. LineageOS tends to be OK and supports +500 phone models:

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