Even leaving aside the fact that there are as many Ukrainians among these Russians as there are Ukrainians among Ukrainians, so in the end, they are killing themselves. It's one thing when the fundraising is declared openly, and it's completely different when you're being fed lies that the money is going to help children and the elderly.

"as many Ukrainians among these Russians" 😂 This isn't some complex moral quandary. Russia is trying to invade Ukraine to take their land and steal their resources. Russians are fighting this war for money: the Russian military is promising huge (for Russia) salaries to soldiers. If it was successful, it would have been a very profitable war because Ukraine has trillions or dollars worth of resources to steal; Russia has already stolen something like a trillion dollars worth of land and resources already.

with ukraine, the majority of funding claims is to "buy" "drones" or other equipment. actually, there is very little accounting for where the money is actually going

There's a saying: "Where a Ukrainian has passed, there's nothing left for a Jew to do."