You say some stuff that I really agree with. But I really don't think you have any idea what you're talking about with relationships. I'm not sure if you are talking about people forty years ago or a race of people that I don't belong to and can't identify with. But none of this jives with reality. In fact I would go so far as to say that it's a complete inversion of reality.

to be fair, i don't think a lot of men are worth marrying and men agree because they aren't asking. :P