gently, gently, not every son's dream gently, gently, not every daughter's dream either or rather, ok, what is the video saying the dream part is? the cash? the car? or the equivalent of bring home dinner and getting a hug if it is the latter, like hey i grew up enough into an adult enough to forage this myself, hunt this successfully, water and tend these vegetables with enough patience, harvest this, cook it all together, provide a meal for you for all the meals you made me if it is saying: i can contribute to the safety of this family so we always have the option of saying no, only have to make choices that feel right then yea, safe to say every son and daughter from a good to ok family, many kids from even bad families, abusive families, dream of this at times, even when all the world agrees in consensus they absolutely shouldnt that's a child's heart tho to be endlessly forgiving to intrinsically love their parents