No one arbitrary person decides what spam is, nor does any collective. Spam is what you think is spam, that's it. You don't have the right to dictate every node's actions. You have the right to dictate your OWN node's actions. Core has these reversed judging by their actions, and they are DARVOing.

There is no free market without personal responsibility.

Bitcoin is the first truly open and free market and there's a lot of people involved without any personal responsibility

So? Point? I didn't say that would crumble the system. You're gonna have to make actual arguments for me to remain engaged in this discussion. It's boring. I'm not gonna do all the thinking for you.