90% honor system, 10% admin judgment. I'm not going to be doing interviews or vetting users or anything like that. I'm sure it won't be perfect and some men will sneak in and be very proud of themselves, but I'm hoping since it's an open network and anyone can see our content, anyway, that there's limited value in "sneaking" in. Its going to come down a lot to how they behave once they join to determine if they're "found out" or not.

Got ya thanks for the thoughtful response

Any time! I was debating how to handle it, myself, and this is ultimately what I landed on. We'll see in time if it works and I'm open to adjusting if need be. :)