Please help me understand: If you host your stuff on some relay you control and moderate, then you use a client that only reads comments from that relay that you control and moderate, then you tell everybody to use that client and you link to your page on that client such that anyone using that client will never see anything outside your control, is that enough? Now if some other client shows up with 2 users and that client chooses to read comments from the harassment-maximalists relay, does that make it a deal-breaker for you?