some months ago I lost pretty all I considered my world. The person that was on my side for the last 5 years and I considered a lifelong partner decided to ghost me in a morning, without other explanations.
I was lost.
Now I'm grateful for all thats happened.
She never loved me and considered me in the way I loved her. We didnt share the same values, the same way to live and the same committement in starting a family.
She didnt care to clarify to the person did all for her for the last 5 years whats happened. What changed in her. She just silenced me a morning and decided to not have nothing to do with me anymore. She last me in a shitful interpretation game who would have destroyed a lot of people.
But not me.
I discovered more about myself in these months than in the last years.
I know who I am, what I want. I'm aligned with myself, with my values. I have finally love around me, I'm now able to share all myself with people around. My family, my friends. New people in my life.
I'm never been happier.
Who would have know that what I have considered the most traumatic experience in my life would have been so good for me?
Life is strange my friends, lets live and be present, everyday is literally a miracle.
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amen
A woman's love is much different than a man's love which is confusing, because its the same word. Men recognize the temporary nature of feelings, and love their women more durably and permanantly. Especially when married. Women seem to only love in the immediate, present moment, accoring to if they feel it at that exact moment. If they arent feeling it, then thats it...no love for you. It can be baffling to the male way of thinking, but evolution just programmes them like that.
Not agree, I think is just a question of optionality and the possibility to avoid responsability without ripercussions. Lack of virtue and respect (for theirself, I mean) that are common to some males and females.