What apps don't do this?

i personally dont think this is a major problem, besides that you cannot turn it off for yourself. i do think that it is a significant problem wrt accounts you do not follow yet(!) and hypothetically are being mob-report attacked

I believe this will become configurable as long as people come forth with code. It's too early to bank on or write off any options in Nostr.

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You can turn it off, you follow the user directly.