I agree, my go to bitcoin node in a box is still Start9, the long wait for a OS updates is pretty annoying though.. From a home server perspective I think Umbrel has more to offer right now. I hate that they don’t have SSL but there are more apps and services available and it gets regular OS updates. So my advice would be, 1 separate server for bitcoin / lightning related services and 1 or more for other services. Unraid is also a very nice solution and a good business model.