The idea that women start to adopt a man’s habits and values as soon as she likes him is red pill shit - which is based on studying behaviours of the masses and making rules out of them.
The masses are unhealthy.
If we based all assumptions on the behaviour of the masses, BTC and NOSTR wouldn’t exist.
These are systems that follow natural law.
A woman connected to her own values is a woman following natural law.
The rest of his suggestion, I’m on board with.
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This is actually my own experience so far. It doesn’t apply to every woman but it does happen quite often when values aren’t too dissimilar at the start (e.g., she’s a commie, you are a libertarian).
This is my experience so far, with a caveat— I have absolutely adopted certain habits of his that already align with my deepest values. Regular physical training being the biggest shift. The thing is, it literally goes both ways in a value-aligned union. He has adopted many habits of mine as well (mostly re: nutrition, bodywork, self-care) that align with his deepest values. Sometimes it takes the thing being lived out right in front of us for us to make a real change.