monero community mostly still has a pretty laid back and helpful vibe, like old Bitcoin except me, I tell maxis they're full of shit every day

I think anytime anyone decides that they have found the one end all be all and close there mind to other options, is a big mistake. It's ok to love something, but once you start obsessing over it, and deciding that everyone else is stupid for picking something else, that's very dangerous. Don't matter what it is.