As kindly as possible, thank you for the info, but it didn't help much. You are asking for medical advice, and if you want something specific then you will need to give specifics. There is a reason why applying averages to the individual doesn't work. She needs individualized care that she can participate in fully, not a magical panacea that works for everyone and will suck all the joy out of her life. Treat the person, not the numbers.