When did you know that you fell in love with your partner?
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First sight (not kidding)
Exactly when? Not sure, just happened gradually then suddenly, just couldn’t picture a life without them in it
How long have you been together now?
Was it mutual?
This will 4 years now
Ha I never asked! But we’re still together after 10+ years marriage 😽
That's cute. You are like, I am in love with this person so much that I don't even care if they hate me lol jk Congratulations!
What is the secret to keeping the spice alive?
Awesome! What is a secret to your successful relationship?
Great sex (also not joking)
😆 I mean I know they love me too, I just never asked if it was a first sight or not thing for them too.
Well here's to many more successfully sexy years 🥂
Good question, I’d say just plenty of listening back and forth, and treating each other with respect, and trying/experiencing new stuff together… 😉
Do you ever do anything spontaneously wild for them that catches them off guard to show love or is it consistent?
our first "argument" is when i realized it. but it probably happened sooner.
What about this "argument" opened your eyes?
When, in the early days of what could yet become a relationship, he took a really hard decision, showing me how serious his feelings were.
it was the first time ever that i didn't text Her goodnight or good morning and it ripped me to shreds.
Did you make sure that never happened again?
Do you think he ever felt resentful if it was something he had given up on his end?
Usually it’s consistent, I’m not one for spontaneous things, it just sort of happens plus she’s the type that doesn’t like to be surprised either 🤣
What is your favorite thing she does that makes you weak in the knees?
short-term, yes.
over the years i failed some more...
i still had a lot to heal from and learn at that point to be a true good boy...
Are you doing this work together?
yes~! ^^
we've come a long way together
That's good. 😊 Is there anything you feel you need to improve on going forward?
letting the vulnerability feel more natural.
identifying Her specific emotional need in the moment.
ensuring She always feels loved and cared for.
That's is beautiful. I wish you much progress in 2025. 🫂
In these 8 years, he never showed any regrets or resentment.
thank you so much, Sarah~!
it's forever a work in progress. :3
and i wish you the best also—thanks for beautiful and engaging post. ^_^
Sounds like it was worth it then. I wish you many blessings for the next 8. 🫂
I feel like true love is about elevating each other to be the best versions of ourselves as we grow throughout the years. It takes two people to invest in that growth, to nurture and support this ever growing movement.
Thank you for answering my questions. I appreciate your time. 🫂
That's sweet! Thank you, Sarah! 🫂
That’s hard, but one of the things is her cooking, especially when she brings it over to my fiat mining and when I don’t ask her to. Also the way she lights up a room 😌