GM 💭
thoughts on the man-woman relationship
Since the earliest moments of human history, the bond between man and woman has been built on three fundamental elements. The man who was more skilled in hunting was not only appreciated for his ability to provide, but also because his presence made the woman feel safe. The woman who knew how to take care of her partner, her family, and herself was considered attractive. When a man sought the attention of many women, he lost the sense of security he provided and became less appealing. A woman, in fact, needs to feel unique, desired, and protected in order to love her man deeply. This principle remains true even today, despite the changes over time. Three words to make a man-woman relationship work: protect, care for and desire.
World changed, humanbeings' souls didn't.
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GM
Thanks for this inspirational post.
Some very good points here for maintaining a positive relationship with your mate.
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GM 🌞🌺
agreed
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meow
beautiful post.
i'll highlight that "protect" includes more than physical safety—it includes emotional safety and security as well.
good morning :3
absolutely! protection in all its aspects ✨
Interesting take. While the dynamics of relationships have evolved, the core emotional needs remain the same. But in a world where traditional roles are shifting, how do we redefine ‘protection’ and ‘care’ without falling into outdated stereotypes? Ciao giuditta 🫶⚡️🧡💜
the emotional stuff tends to be an area a lot of men struggle with. it's kinda drilled into us that protection means physical safety and roof over head, but it should be all encompassing—the heart is essential.
in the modern era i think it's the most important.
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E’ vero gli istinti primordiali quelli sono. L’amore di una madre per il figlio e’ la cosa piu pura come l’istinto di protezione e di caccia per la famiglia
Data points in my life do no support these views… during the relationship roles shift, with time both parties become less attracted to one another and mutual expectations increase. This dynamic creates incentives to move on and this happens with increasing frequency.
Nothing is forever, and this is especially true of man-woman relationships. Just enjoy the good times and don’t let the bitter times to ruin the memory. Tick-tock next block. ✌️😊🤙❤️🧡💜💛
I couldn't agree more. Physical safety in a relationship, without emotional safety, is like living in a cage without bars. They go hand in hand, as it's hard to feel physically safe in an environment that's bruising you in the inside. End up living in a constant survival mode - I grew up seeing that.
well put, Juls. ^^
it's painful growing in that kind of environment. when did you realize what was going on and how do you think that shaped you?? (no pressure to answer :3)
No issue answering this, I will do so shortly! 🫂
