Also, would love you to run you own public relay without spam protections. When it starts dumping megabytes of spam into everyones threads and notifications people won’t want to use it, even with client based filtering, because its a waste of data and has additional mental burden of accidentally filtering people who are legitimate and outside your WoT.

And I CERTAINLY will not...but your'e advocating for the exact thing that Nostr was created to prevent. Seriously, I cannot believe that you're saying "censorship is the answer"... That's what Twitter is for... Or... perhaps you're saying that if YOU are to be the ultimate arbiter of what should be censored, then it's ok... Check your ego at the door my friend...