You have to take some odds. I sent out a dozen zaps and had at least 3-4 people reach out an thank me for the surprise. Maybe some went to a bot wallet, and that’s okay. Making a small change as a random act of gratitude has immense power to make someone’s day.
Honestly the WoT stuff that nostr:npub1u5njm6g5h5cpw4wy8xugu62e5s7f6fnysv0sj0z3a8rengt2zqhsxrldq3 is working on fixes a lot of this, it’s just gonna take time to get it all implemented and integrated.