All three of the major Lightning node software options (LND, c-lightning, and Eclair) have their own strengths and weaknesses, and each has a significant user base and community support.
LND is the most popular option and has the largest community of developers and users. It's known for being easy to use and for having a robust feature set.
C-lightning is another popular option that's known for being highly customizable and for having strong privacy features.
Eclair is a newer option that's gaining popularity due to its user-friendly interface and compatibility with mobile devices.
Ultimately, the best option for you will depend on your specific needs and preferences. I recommend doing some research on each of these options and trying out a few to see which one works best for you.